今天是中秋节啦。


呵呵，校园里迎接新生的工作刚好才结束，在广场上的帐篷还没撤下来，到处都是三五成群的同学，说笑着。很是热闹。


抬头看看天，十五的月亮，皎洁的圆盘周围有一圈暖暖的光晕。上次这样看月亮不知道是什么时候了？是另一个孤独的夜晚，还是儿时天真好奇自由自在的躺在草地上的时候。这是让人回忆起许多往事哪～


中秋节还有其他节日的时候，有一件事是一定不会少的。那就是短信送祝福。不知道你收到了几封短信呢？收到被人的祝福总是好的，但是我更希望收到的祝福是确实出自祝福者之手的。即便是在平凡的几句，也不一定要有什么文采。就像我现在写网志一样。说最真实的语言就好。但是好像大家都挺好面子，于是我的手机就像大家的手机一样，成了人家赛诗会的会址了。真的不用这样。

哦，刚才还看到一个同学拎了好大一个袋子，一问才知道是酒。再仔细一看另一只手上拿的是下酒的小菜，除了我之外还有这么会享受的人。

易～～拿～～（日语）

我有一个朋友，每当有几个朋友一起聚会或是有其他什么约定，他总是在别人都准备好要出发的时候哦，让别人小等一阵。倒不是要耍个什么大牌，就是总有些什么他看来很重要的事要做。而且让别人等他的时候，常常会有这样的对白：这最多5分钟。最后往往是等了20多分钟在甚至半个小时以上。或是说某某时间会做客，而你等到下午快5点才有个短信来跟你解释情况……
这里并不是想要批评那个朋友，只是想从这里面总结些东西，给自己看。
被放鸽子的经历很多人都有，受害者最大的感受还是气愤。为什么？因为他觉得自己很不被尊重，只顾做自己的事，丝毫没有意识到浪费了别人的时间。这不就是用实际行动让人感觉我的时间没有你的时间值钱么。于是我发现，我们应该尊重身边的每一位，就算是在好的朋友也要有所尊重。而让身边的人感到被尊重可以体现在很多言行的细节上。比如说，尊重别人的时间，尊重别人对生活对工作的计划。让别人觉得，自己在对方的严重的地位比自己想象的还高，至少没有被践踏。

好长的假期啊，终于结束了。假期有那么多打算，倒在床上能想起来的剩不了几个。有点浪费时间的感觉。不过能跟家人在一起度过那么长时间也不错。、

Don Vito Corleone说过： A Man Don't Spend Time With Their Families is not a real man.这可能是假期做的最有意义的事了。

06/CET4的考试题中的文章,觉得不错，发上来大家看看





There's is an energy crisis in America, and it has nothing to do with fossil fuels. Milllions of us get us get up each morning already weary over the day holds. "I just can't get started." people say. But it's not physical energy that most of us lack.Sure, we could use extra sleep and a better diet. But in truth, people are healthier today than at any time in history. I can almost gaurantee that if you long for more ennergy, the problem is not with you body.

What you're seeking is not physical energy. It's emotional energy. Yet,said to say, life sometimes seems designed to exhaust our supply. We work too hard. We have family obligations. We encouter emergencies and personal crisis. No wonder so many of us suffer from emotional fatigues, a kind of utter exhaustion of the spirite.

And yet we all know people who are filled with joy, despite the unpleasant circumstances of their lives. Even as a child, I observed people who were poor or disabled, or ill, but who nonetheless faced life with optimism and vigor. Consider Laura Hillenbrand, who, despite an extremely weak body, wrote the best-seller seabiscuit. Hillenbrand barely have enough physical energy to darg herself out of bed to write. But she was fueled by having a story she wanted to share. It was emotional energy that helped her succeed.

Unlike phycial energy, which is finite and diminishes with age, emotional energy is unlimited and has nothing to do with genes or upbringing. So how do you get it? You can' simply tell yourself to be positive. You must take action. Here are six practical strategies that work.


1. DO SOMETHING NEW.

Very little that's new ocurrs in out lives. The impact of this sameness on our emotional energy is grabual, but huge. It's like tire with a slow leak. You don't notice it at first, but eventually you'll get a flat. It's up to you to plug the leak---even though there are always a dozen reason to stay stuck in your dull routines of life. That's where Maura, 36, a waitress, found herself a year ago.
Fortunately, Maura had a lifetime--- a group of women friends who meet regularly to discuss their lives. Their lively discussion spurred Maura to make small but nevertheless life -altering changes. She joined a gym in the next town. She changed her look with a short haircut and new black T-shirts. Eventually, Maura gatherd the courage to quit the job and start her own business.
Here's a chanllenge: If it's something you wouldn't ordinary do, do it. Try the dish you've never eaten. Listen to music you'd ordinary tune out. You'll dicover these small things add to your emotional energy.

2. RECLAIM LIFE'S MEANING.

So many patients tell me that their lives used to have meaning, but that somewhere along the line things went stale.
The first step in solving this meaning shortage is to figure out what you really care about, and then do something about it. A case in point is Ivy, 57, a pioneer in investment banking. " I mistakenly believed that all the money I made would mean something," she says. " But I feel lost, like a 22-year-old wondering what to do to poor children. In the process, Ivy filled her life with meaning.

3. PUT YOURSELF IN THE FUN ZONE.

Most of us grown-ups are seriously fun-deprived. High-energy people have the same day-to-day work as the rest of us, but they manage to find something enjoyable in every situation. A A real-estate broker I know keeps herself amused on the job by mentally redecorating the houses she shows to clients. " I love imagining what even the most run-down house could look like with a little tender loving care," she says. "It's challenge-- and the least desirable properties are usually the most fun."
We all define fun differently, of course, but I can guarantee this : If you put just a bit of it into your day, your energy will increase quickly.

4. BID FAREWELL TO GUILT AND REGRET

Everyone's past is filled with regrets that will cause pain. But fron an emotional energy point of view, they are dead weight that keep us from moving forward. While they can't merely be willed away. I do recommand you remind yourself that whatever happened is in the past, and nothing can change that. Holding on to the memory only allows the damage to continue into the present.

5. MAKE UP YOUR MIND.

Say you've been thinking about cutting your hair short. Will it look stylish---or too extreme? You endlessly think it over. Having the decision hanging over you head is a huge energy drain. Every time you can't decide, you burden yourself with alternatives. Quit thinking that you have to make the right decision;instead, make a choice and don't look back.

6. GIVE TO GET

Emotional energy has a kind of magical quality: The more you give, the more you get back. This is the difference between emotional energy physical energy. With the later, you have to get it to be able to give it. With the former,you get it by giving it.
Start by asking everyone you meet, "How are you?" as if you really want to know, then listen to the reply. Be the one who hears. Most of us also need to smile more often. If you don't smile at the person you love first thing in the morning you're sucking energy out of your relationship. Finally, help another person---and make the help real, concrete. Give a massage to someone you love, or cook her dinner. Then, expand the circle to work.Try asking yourself what you'd do if your goal were to be helpful rather than efficient.
After all, if it's true that what goes around comes around, why not make sure that what's circulating around you is the good stuff?

很喜欢坚哥哥的这首POP STAR，记得在高中时候还曾经和同学模仿过里面的动作。真的很有意思。I wanna be your pop star～坚哥哥的实力和搞笑功力真叫人佩服。FUNky FUNky！！

最近在网上看到一篇文章，标题为 Are You a Mac User？Then, you are a snob!.Snob的大致意思是说花钱追风的傻逼。突然觉得好像有点狐狸吃不到葡萄的感觉，而且刚好我自己正好也想买个MacBook玩玩，我这个人比较好的一点就是相对冷静，碰到跟自己想法相悖的言论反而更有耐心去看了……
其实文章批判性不强，只是略带调侃地说了Mac User（简称MU）的几个比较常见的病症，不至于把别人嘲讽成傻逼：

1. MU自负，认为自己在团体中很重要！

2. MU都是Perfectionist（完美主义者），喜欢很高级的东西，They go to Starbucks！！（汗！老外都认为去 星巴克很变态，中国的snob真不少啊）

3. MU都漂白牙齿（我发誓我没有干过，只是矫正过，虽然有人怀疑过，赫赫，喜哉^_^不过我注重牙齿，国内欧美人几乎人人都矫正牙齿，如果我生在那种环境中，我估计我八成会去漂白一下，呵呵。）

4. MU注重环保（北京奥运要搞好就需要这种人啊）

5. 优越感强，觉得自己比PC User牛逼。

总体看来我确实有点Mac User特质

今天突然一个LaGAY（补习的同学）狂Q我，叫我帮他撑BBS。关系比较好，忙当然要帮啦。于是写文字，找图片，挖资源，终于制作出了一个像样的帖子。没想到一发，XXX，空白页！刷了一下网页，竟出了一张未编辑的空白贴！无比郁闷啊，发贴的积极性一下就跌到了谷底。
后来仔细想了下，自己的Blog都没好好写过，怎么一到BBS上发帖就那么讲究起来了？好面子吧，赫赫～
我想很多人写Blog都跟我一样有一点盲从性。博客一词在中国似乎本身就是被一夜炒起来的。盲从子后就是矛盾，而这种矛盾几乎人人皆有。一方面希望自己的Blog看的人越多越好，人气旺，被人欣赏谁不想？但是BBS上的贴其实在大多数情况下都比Blog更容易被人发现，相应的人气也比较容易积累。为什么不去发帖，要在自己的blog里发表高见？是因为自己想说一说关于自己的事？我看有很多人的私人Blog都想象商业Blog发展，弄得很玄，文章含金量很高，但是不是自己写的呢？依我看Blog还是少一电『转帖』这类的词比较好，一来老是转来转去的显得没创意，二来“贴”不就是在说BBS吗？这摆明了就是在自己的Blog页面里嵌了个BBS的链接麽～BS一下～